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You have trouble getting dates. You don't get invited to parties. Dances are for other people.
You're really a good person. You're sensitive, considerate. You follow all the rules of "How To Win Friends and Influence People." Yet you still have trouble making friends or attracting the opposite sex.
All around you, you see people quickly making friends, enjoying lively conversations, having a good time, and getting as many dates as they desire.
You think to yourself "What is wrong with me? Why can other people make friends so easily but I can't? Am I just an unlikable person?"
Believe me, I know. For many years, I was just about the shyest person you ever met. Call me a "recovering shy guy."
In all those years as a shy person, I became intensely aware of just what is wrong with being shy. I had trouble making friends, never went on dates, and generally just sat by myself in the cafeteria at lunch time, pretending I wasn't lonely.
You see, I know how frustrating it is to go through life being unable to draw other people into warm personal contacts!
The greatest need of human beings aside from food, clothing and shelter is that of human companionship. Shyness strikes at the very core of what it means to be human—the ability to make that vital human connection with others!
The fact is that shyness or social phobia, depending on their degree, can keep you from making friends, finding a mate, even getting...
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